Hello readers! 🤗
(To be read as sons and daughters)
Your opinion on what a mother means to you I know might be varying according to situations and ur moods of course..mine also did but not anymore. My journey from ' I can do everything on my own ,why do I need her' to 'even if my life's going well I need her' was quite dramatic and undoubtedly taught me alot of stuff. Now I feel whatever happens in ur life she is the constant .she might support you or she might even not but this won't change ur opinion and respect for her when u grow old and mature. U may feel that this theory won't hold true for all , but let me explain that it does..perhaps u are the person who doesn't talk to your mom on daily basis but there are certain things that u can only and only share with her. Well,there are specific people with whom you share your specific ideas , thoughts, incidents and opinions but my friend, your mother knows a whole lot about you 😉. On a serious note, you should be grateful to her even if your opinions don't match or even if u end up arguing with her every now n then. If u still aren't convinced let me give u a reason why you are indepted to her . She is the one who provided you with nutrition from the time you were a selfish feotus to what you are now. A baby in mother's uterus gets its nutrition from the mother's blood and in turn it releases all the waste that it has generated in mother's blood itself...in my opinion this is just like stabbing someone in the back..though this one's a little too harsh 🤷♀️ . I hope this might have convinced you because philosophical stuff don't convince me either. Talking about current world , I feel people are busy in making their mothers as their best friends though there's nothing wrong in it but as per me every relation has its significance and importance. A relationship that you have with your mother is unique in itself and shouldn't be compared with other relations because this fashion of combining relations and showcasing one of them as convenient is mere stupidity and perhaps would make it worse. I feel this is a fair amount of information for all of us to digest and reflect on..so let's meet in the next blog..jpeg)
Your opinion on what a mother means to you I know might be varying according to situations and ur moods of course..mine also did but not anymore. My journey from ' I can do everything on my own ,why do I need her' to 'even if my life's going well I need her' was quite dramatic and undoubtedly taught me alot of stuff. Now I feel whatever happens in ur life she is the constant .she might support you or she might even not but this won't change ur opinion and respect for her when u grow old and mature. U may feel that this theory won't hold true for all , but let me explain that it does..perhaps u are the person who doesn't talk to your mom on daily basis but there are certain things that u can only and only share with her. Well,there are specific people with whom you share your specific ideas , thoughts, incidents and opinions but my friend, your mother knows a whole lot about you 😉. On a serious note, you should be grateful to her even if your opinions don't match or even if u end up arguing with her every now n then. If u still aren't convinced let me give u a reason why you are indepted to her . She is the one who provided you with nutrition from the time you were a selfish feotus to what you are now. A baby in mother's uterus gets its nutrition from the mother's blood and in turn it releases all the waste that it has generated in mother's blood itself...in my opinion this is just like stabbing someone in the back..though this one's a little too harsh 🤷♀️ . I hope this might have convinced you because philosophical stuff don't convince me either. Talking about current world , I feel people are busy in making their mothers as their best friends though there's nothing wrong in it but as per me every relation has its significance and importance. A relationship that you have with your mother is unique in itself and shouldn't be compared with other relations because this fashion of combining relations and showcasing one of them as convenient is mere stupidity and perhaps would make it worse. I feel this is a fair amount of information for all of us to digest and reflect on..so let's meet in the next blog.
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ReplyDeleteThat was dam good dear. Really I to extremely agree that the status of relation given between children and mother couldn't be changed and even should not be changed. The most common tendency of human being is to realise after the movie is over. So that is what is the case even with mom and child relationship. You feel as if she opposing you but that time is so undescribable when you construe that her decision what right.
ReplyDeleteThanks..we have like minds for sure😇
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ReplyDeleteFor me my mother is my biggest critic, she is the one who keeps me grounded and show me my place in this compititive space. It is just everything I speak to her i learn a lot about myself and also the world. Even though we can't share everything with our mother, she understands much more than we think 😅.
ReplyDeleteBut the saddest thing i hear from my friends is that they don't have good communication with their mothers. I think this should be Changed and we should start opening up with our mother rather than finding a friend who isn't really interested in your reality.
BTW really a good blog 😸.
And ,mother is not one in million.
She is the only one in this entire lifetime.💖